Death is painful to accept even after many years and as a senior citizen, it should not be anymore . . .

Fellow single parents, especially those who reach their senior year: How do you celebrate the death anniversary of your spouse when death still feels painful? Or should the question be, should death still be painful when as a senior citizen citizen, we reach a level of acceptance if only to allow the beloved dead , a chance at eternal life only God offers.

Today, March 16 is the 14th death anniversary of my better half, Bonifacio. To you Bon, my prayers  for your eternal peace in God's care. Please take care of your family here on earth. Your daughter, Irene,  is now a lucky participant of International Visitors Leadership Program.  She is now in Salt Lake Utah. Your three boys are close to each other as ever. Kuya Ben is a videographer and chef; Diko is a call center agent in Cebu City while your youngest Bon, is a wedding photographer. You know how they are doing of course. And me, you know I will be turning 62 this coming July 1 so as a senior sole mom, you have to pray harder for my health. There are signs that my health is not as good as it used to be. I still remain energetic because I still teach in college. I find myself becoming more tired everyday. My teeth are not as perfect as it used to be so dentures have to be entertained.

Give me some sign that the future of your children is safe and that you will play a more active role to take care of each of them. In the meantime, we will pray that you are in God's loving care. Rest in peace Bon. Good night.